“I left because this place wasn’t ready for me. I came back because I’m ready for it.”
Hi, I'm Stevi.
If you've made it this far, you've probably already read a little about what I do. But there's a whole lot more to the story behind Do Better Consulting, and not all of it fits neatly into a professional biography.
Some of it comes from the work I've done. Some comes from learning what it means to exist outside other people's expectations, and discovering how much those experiences would eventually shape the work I do today.
How all of that brought me here? Well, that's a bit of a longer story.
Let me start at the beginning.
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I grew up in Pictou County, Nova Scotia. It's a rural community where everybody seems to know everybody, and where fitting in often felt easier than being yourself.
I learned early how to blend in, laugh off racist jokes, hide my queerness and disconnect from parts of myself that made other people uncomfortable.
Eventually, I left. Not because I didn't care about where I came from, but because I wanted the chance to figure out who I was and who I could be, without spending so much energy trying to fit into other people's ideas of me.
Moving away gave me the chance to find community, reconnect with my culture and experience what it felt like to be accepted without having to make myself smaller, explain or defend who I was.
It also made me realize how much of myself I'd learned to hold back growing up.
And how much I wanted things to be different for the people who choose to stay, and those who don't have the option to leave.
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Coming home was complicated. I'd grown and changed while I was away, but many of the challenges I'd experienced growing up were still there.
But something else stood out to me.
There were people and organizations here who genuinely wanted to do better. People who cared about their communities and the people they worked with, but didn't always have the resources, support or practical guidance to make that happen.
Having grown up here, I understood some of the challenges that come with living and working in rural communities. Relationships overlap, resources can be limited and approaches that work in larger centres don't always translate to smaller communities.
I began to see that the willingness to make changes was often there. What was missing was someone who understood those realities, could help people work through the challenges they were facing and figure out what to do next.
That's where Do Better Consulting came from.
I wanted to offer the kind of support I'd seen people looking for. Something practical, grounded in the realities of their communities and focused on making things better for the people who lived and worked there.
I couldn't change what growing up here had been like for me. But I could be part of making it different for the people coming after me.
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I care about rural communities.
I care about the safety, joy and futures of the people who live in them, especially those who feel like leaving is the only way they'll ever be able to live as themselves.
And I care about the people who have already left. I want them to know that coming home is possible, and that their communities can become places where they're welcomed for who they are.
I know there are people already working hard to make their communities better because I've seen it. I want Do Better Consulting to complement that work, not compete with it.
I want to work alongside people and organizations who care about how others experience their spaces and services, and help them make those experiences better. Not because someone told them they should, but because it's what they wanted for people all along.
My role isn't to decide what that looks like for them. It's to help them get there.
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The people coming through your doors are changing. Their needs, expectations and understanding of what it means to feel respected and included are changing too.And organizations need to be willing to grow alongside them.
Telling someone they're welcome is a promise. When people walk through your doors believing they'll be accepted and supported, they have every reason to expect you to follow through. And when that promise isn't kept, the harm can go well beyond that one experience.
The people accessing your services, working alongside you and growing up in your communities are paying attention.
And the next generation?
They're keeping receipts.
"Stevi is such a pleasure to work with. My experience with them was impeccable. Stevi brings an incredible capacity to organize and implement meaningful programs and change.”
— Nathan Doucet,
Child and Youth Care Practitioner